Yep, not a wise thing to mess with the Holland sisters. The girls kept this quiet though as they did not want Ellie totally embarrassed in school. As I said, they were not ‘mean’ girls. No one in school knew about it except their friends. Not even me.
I didn’t. There was no party there. Someone had played a trick on me. I walked home and it was quite a walk, and came through the door. I told my mom and sisters. My sisters were livid. I’ve never seen them so mad.
Then Lori said to her, “Oh my God, you must me so disappointed. Just as disappointed as my brother was when he went to that fake Halloween party you invited him to.” Lori then slammed the door in her face.
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The girls went into their Nancy Drew roles and after some snooping around, they found out that the one who invited me to the fake party was a girl in school that was jealous and envious of them. To get at my sisters, she went after me, their brother, which unknown to her, was a huge mistake. My older sisters were very protective of me even though I kept telling them I could take care of myself.
They made up an invitation to a fake party at our house stating in the invitation to keep it quiet as only certain people had been invited. This was to be a private party. They told their friends about their plan and told them to keep it quiet. The girls told me nothing of their plan.
I have to bring back a Halloween story I had answered with before. My older sisters were in fine form here looking out for me, their brother.
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The twins and I went to the same school. They were very popular girls in school. My sisters started modelling the year before and always wore the latest fashions. A lot of girls took up the same styles. Some girls just had their noses out of joint and we’re jealous. My sisters had their close knit friends but they were not the ‘bad girls’ you see in movies these days.
Thanks girls.
Lori asked me, “Do you know anybody who would want to do this to you?” I said I didn’t. “This is not over,” Lori said patting my arm. “No one gets away doing something like this to our brother.” I told her it was okay and she said, “Oh no, it’s not okay RJ, it’s not okay at all.”
Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support.
I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized.
he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that.
he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened.
he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence.
i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me
i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction.
after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly.
things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it.
we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe …
our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far?
this has upset me so much its hard to even function.
My sisters cancelled going to a party that night and they stayed home, invited some of their friends over, and I was told to invite mine. Mom and dad ordered food and we had our own party, later watching some scary movies together. It was great. That’s the kind of sisters and parents I have.
Don’t mess with our brother!
The day of the so called party, Ellie, the girl who faked the Halloween party, came to our house in a 1920s costume as the party was stated to be a Roaring Twenties party. Ellie knocked on the door and my sisters, Lori and Tracy both answered. I overheard. “Oh, Ellie, weren’t you informed the party was yesterday instead of today?” I heard Ellie yell, “WHAT! No I wasn’t!”
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After the party, I was in my bed eating soda crackers, drinking milk and teading a book. Lori once told me I was going to turn into a soda cracker. I loved them, still do. The girls came into my room and sat on my bed.
I found out about all this much later when I came face to face with Ellie in the hallway at school when I went to meet the girls at their lockers before we went home. She gave me a terrible scowl and kept walking. Asking the girls later why she would do this, they told me all about it. Wow. My sisters had my back. As I grew older, I vowed I would pay them back and have their backs when they needed me.
“Have fun?” asked Lori. I said I did and thanks.
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Tracy came in my room crying and sat by me saying she wished she would have waited and not driven off. She hated the idea of me walking home. I told her I was fourteen and can handle a walk home. I told her not to worry about me so much and I remember her telling me that as an older sister, that was her job.
I remember going up to my room, sitting on my bed in my pirate outfit which would have made Jack Sparrow proud, and thinking that this is going to be a really boring night. I could not for the life of me think of anyone who would want to do this to me.
When I was fourteen, I was invited to a Halloween party. My older twin sisters, age sixteen, and mother helped me with an excellent pirate costume. My sister Tracy, who just got her licence, drove me to the house where the party was supposed to be and dropped me off. “Have fun,” she said and drove away.
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